As Olinda Chideme returns online today, watch ZimEye LIVE today at 11am (Zim time) as a top firebrand MP jumps in to Stunner’s wife’s side.
Grace Kwinjeh | Firebrand Member of Parliament, Priscilla Misihairabwi- Mushonga, is guest on ZimEye LIVE this morning as she blows open the Olinda Chideme matter, explaining it within a broader feminist perspective.
Mushonga has come out guns blazing in support of Olinda, cautioning women, “there is an Olinda in each of us.” Olinda’s story Mushonga says is just a ‘reality show’ of what most women are going through, only difference being their response mechanisms.
Mushonga says she is strong in ‘Team Olinda’, because of the realisation that since time immemorial women have always found coping mechanisms to keep their relationships with their men; this time round through Olinda all emotions, vulnerabilities and pains have been laid bare.
“The anger that’s coming from women as a result of Olinda’s issue is a mirror image of our lives, she speaks to our lives, the anger, betrayal showing out of what we are going through. She has been brave enough to show the world what marriage is all about where at times women are powerless, we have always run after the the other woman.”
Mushonga says Olinda did not run after the other women Stunner is chasing, instead she used a platform she knew he would respond too which is social media, just as other women will alternatively go to the prophet, the pastor or even witch doctors. “That’s why there are love portions,” says the outspoken legislator, “women want to keep their men.”
“To blame her for using social media as her coping mechanism is ridiculous, we all have our coping mechanisms, hers is public use of social media, that is her way, she wants her marriage, she wants her husband, the working strategy is social media, that is what Stunner responds to,” said Mushonga.
More of this explosive interview with Mushonga on ZimEye Live.
she opened herself to scrutiny,now she will bear the consequencies,she is the type that talks then think after,a bad recipe
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We don’t accept it as normal Grace. If this is not the first time it’s clear he doesn’t love her. She can stay or go and needs to live with her decision. Now all her life is going to be turned upside down. He will never forgive or trust her again even if she buys him a Bentley. Her kids & his will have other kids talking about this. When she does leave who will touch her? Never mind her past. If after only one husband the odds of getting divorced on second are high. Manje this is no 3. So the question is why does she move from man to man? She has some issues that she needs to address. If it is all the men’s fault why does she keep picking such men? Stunner has issues and so does she. She needs to sort herself out for the sake of her children.
Hapana every1 has seen her face. Even Nigerians, Ghanaians here in U.K were discussing her video. Once a guy starts dating her he will know. That is if she doesn’t get prosecuted for fraud nekuti nursing agency doesn’t make the kind of money or life she is flaunting. I hope is ain’t claiming things she ain’t entitled cause that will cause another drama. Her kids have seen even drama and daddies
Ehhh I heard that one too. She wanted to expose him and now she will be probed. Why in a council house if you can buy a guy 3cars Audi, Benz nelexus. Even if bought on eBay it’s at £10k and shipping plus on all of them. Then did she pay duty & customs clearance? Then why be in such a house at taxpayers expense when poor families are waiting on a list for housing kuBicester ikoko nekuti all those cars, designer clothes, business class air tickets et al should not be by someone living at taxpayers expense. She should be in a private house paying market rent. Who knows what else she has been claiming. HMRC will go through her life with a tooth comb. That will be another drama then she will have another breakdown.
they were in the room paaita zvekupenga zvisina hunhu akatonzi Olinda mira tiite matare pasiri pafacebook iye akaramba. Amwene was there, ana Sekuru were there, ne this other older woman who wanted to pray with her akati kingingi kuomesa gotsi nxa!
Promicuous or unchastist is condoned by all standards but what I am saying is that in shona ” Rova imbwa wakavinga mupini ” and not what she did.Even you Grace Midst, I don’t think you can go to that exetend. What are your kids saying even where they are,be at school or wherever. The best way was to leave Stunner and move on with your life.With what you did, I challenge you that no man in his sober mind will go for you anymore if you leave Stunner unless if you change your first and second name.
true hey,she made a fool of herself,because the world didnt know her dirty past,and I hear in England they have begun probing her business and life style lets hope there are no skeletons too there
I’m one of those women against her behaviour. She could have gone to his mother, aunties etc. Ini mukheda like Olinda know that and I ain’t been married three times. By now she knows how the system works. Exposing her kids and his to all that info and what about at school those children? If it is not the first time then she can make a decision if he doesn’t want to be faithful to her. Nekuti now she stays but everyone knows everything what kind? She has no respect for herself, her family, her elders esp behaving like that recording video when elders present and asking to talk to you? No mhani doesn’t matter if your daddy is white like hers & mine Respect your elders. She needs to grow up and behave like a wife & mother mhani. Young girls watching that now think it’s ok
Ohhhh please. She certainly does not relate to me neither does she mirror my life. Utter total BS. Feminism is of the devil to destroy society look at what it has done in the West. Idiots copying western failed policies. Only a Hure can relate to her. 3 husbands by 33 plus cheating on previous? How and when did she meet Stunner? Was she not already married? What is her link to Gaynor? Teen mother etc please don’t talk for women speak for yourself.
You also making assumptions,Grace,that all women are 100% behind this Lady,there is lot of women who have come vocally against her they way she went public on her personal affairs,I have read and seen videos of such women.I dont say being cheated was ok,what people are against is the way she handled the whole issue and subsquently lying to the world that she has never cheated,she no once but several times with different men
There you go making assumptions on the type of women supporting Olinda lol. Denial at its best. From what both Olinda and Stunner said matare had not worked coz iye Stunner admitted kuti it was not the 1st time such had happened. Olinda tried the last thing she hoped would work for her. I can understand her frustration.
Yes I agree with you on 100% support but that support is not from married women but its from those who have parted ways with their husbands or those who have snatched other women’s husbands.What Olinda was supposed to do was to approach vana tete,sekuru nanambuya vaDesmond voita matare avo which is normal for our cultural values and norms rather than shouting like a drunkard.Remember if you point a finger to someone remember the other three fingers will be pointing at you as well. Have asked yourself what those three fingers will be asking for.They will be saying ko iwevo.
how many precisely?
Even after they knew they’re behind her 100%. I would never judge someone on their past especially when I don’t have all the facts. On this occasion women are simply sympathising with Olinda coz varume vanyanya. Then you still get comments from other women achinzi nyarara hausiriwe watanga kuhurirwa. As if it’s every man’s right to cheat. It’s pathetic what we have been brought up to accept as normal.
That is before they knew kuti she had huge skeletons in her closet which include kuhura nemurume wemunhu kusvika mukadzi wacho arasa njere haibabo apa everyone took her side thinking kuti she is holier than thou. What goes around comes around.
Thats Bullocks Priscilla unombotaura zvine musoro but apa wataura tosh. Olinda was not supoosed kufumura murume wake like this on social media, kufukura hapwa iye ane hapwe dzizere mazibvudzi ane tsvina. She is no different from Tafadzwa akati Macheso anekadora and many more women scorned. Ndakashora the way she went on and on hallucinating mumba makanga makazara ana asekuru nana amwene wake ndochii ichocho. Olinda ndokuti sascum chairo. Now takuziva kuti she was caught red handed naFundira what goes around comes around. Hooo nhayi hauchadi kurwadziswa asi vakamborwadzisa mukadzi wemumwe munhu kusvika arasa njere NO mhani!n Akadii kupinda muBathroom akazviuraya kwete kuita drama in front of people achiziva kuti anobatwa
Why lying zvakadaro. Olinda declared kuti haachada , Olinda broke many hearts, she was caught cheating by her first hubby , nhasi uno iye ozhambatata kunge asina twakewo. Mahure agara anonetsa . Esp akabatana achipembedzana kutaura rubish . Who cares u are a minister , you are someone who also broke another woman’s marriage , we know ma faira ako hure iwe . Dont think definition yehure fits only those uneducated peniless ladies vekuma avenues uko. Even iwe Priscilla wanga wakaroorwa nemurume wemunhu mukapedzisira mavakurwirana pfuma nevana vemurume . Uri chupeti yemukadzi , you are busy encouraging divorces ipapa. Duzvi
Not according to the comments I read on different women forums
But on serious note many women are against Olinda’s facebook disparaging antics!!!!
Lol. That’s actually funny.
How many husbands does this woman broke away with? What are the causes of their seperations? Was it because of the man’s faults or? If I remember well the first marriage was because of her infidelity and that led to their marriage’s breakdown.In shona we say ” Chakafukidza dzimba matenga” and men are very strong in restisting opening their doors to the public unlike women. Otherwise there is more to it than the Olinda’s cries.Women cry louder than men even at funeral their cries are always on top and this doesn’t mean they are more pained than men.Men are likened to sheeps on a slaughter, they don’t shed tears even death is within their visinity. Stunner is also in every men’s heart who is married. We die silently guys.Lets not let our menship be tampered with. Poetic justice must prevail on this matter.
speak for yourself
The Honerable Minister should be reminded that the woman she is so actively defending is not without a blemish herself,she cheated on her husband of previous marriage,let the one without a sin throw the first stone.This holier than thou attitude Stunner s wife is publicly spreading is without substance,I still say this matter was supposed to be handled internally and privately
Just a rebellious frustrated few ….the rest cannot do without Mapumhangozi Tsvimbo yaSamere….They can even share it as long as ichikumira kuti TWASA chete!!!!
Then be ready for the repercussions of your actions. We won’t have none of it for much longer. Muchati twasa
There is also a STUNNER in every man. We cannot survive on one “punani” . Infact One Man One Punani is a legacy of colonialism.