By A Correspondent

Elson Manzini from Sihlengeni, Bulawayo, has taken a bold step to protect himself from his estranged wife, Thembelihle Moyo, who threatened to kill him by setting their bedroom hut ablaze. Manzini fled their home in fear and sought a court protection order, citing threats to his life and physical abuse.

Moyo’s abuse wasn’t limited to threats; she also verbally and physically assaulted Manzini at his workplace, accusing him of neglecting their children. Manzini recounted how Moyo would humiliate him in front of others, causing scenes and threatening his life. The final straw came when Manzini discovered Moyo in bed with another man at her family home.

In court, Moyo admitted to issuing death threats, blaming her anger on Manzini’s alleged failure to provide financial support for their children. However, Manzini expressed concerns for his safety, stating, “I want to engage my in-laws first before she comes. And I’m afraid she would kill me.”

Presiding magistrate Challenge Mahembe granted Manzini a 5-year protection order, prohibiting Moyo from:

• Physical and Verbal Abuse: No physical harm or verbal threats against Manzini.
• Death Threats: No issuing of death threats or attempts to intimidate Manzini.
• Returning Home: Moyo cannot return to their matrimonial home without permission.

Manzini’s courage highlights the often-overlooked issue of male victims of domestic abuse and the importance of seeking help. According to experts, recognizing signs of an abusive partner, such as controlling behavior, verbal abuse, and extreme jealousy, is crucial in escaping toxic relationships ¹. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, seeking support and protection is essential.