Hubby Of Murdered Birmingham Woman Hospitalised | BREAKING NEWS
31 January 2017
Ray Nkosi | Norbet Chikerema (42) who is suspected to have brutally killed his wife Gillian Zvomuya yesterday, has been hospitalised ZimEye can confirm.
It is reported that Chikerema took an overdose of unnamed tablets apparently before the murder.
The late Gillian has been described as, “good mother, caring loving an angel.”
Chikerema was a nurse by profession. Zvomuya has left two boys and two girls and the youngest child is five years old.
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Zimeye, I think you are capitalising on this. Discussing tragedies with emotions is a bit dangerous. Life is a journey, and every journey has its ups and down. Some examples coming here are people who have failed to move on. Such advice should be taken with a pinch of salt. True, there is abuse in all over. But taking one’s case to overrule all others is dangerous. Every woman has an option of looking for a sperm donor and make babies. I am not justifying this or any murder of a partner but generally accusing men is unfortunate. So many deaths are happening in Diaspora because of AIDS, BP, CANCER etc and just in all tribes, races and religions. This issue in being over blown. I know it is very tragic and my heart is bleeding but a moment of reflection is needed. Men must never become violent. Kana zvisingaite hazviite.
My problem with this over reaction is many couples end up divorcing and its children who suffer. Also, when a single parent is left to look after 2 or 3 children, there are always numerous problems of finance, control, moulding children into better adults. The single parent, men or woman may die or may end up having numerous partners which the children will take as normal. The advice we give under such circumstances must be measured please. The advice may be correct today but in years to come, the consequences may be bad. Again, I repeat that I am 120% against abuse but let us guard against knee jerk responses. A solution we may give could have disastrous results tomorrow.
On another note, Mweya yemadzinza could be following. We can never run away from our past and past crimes committed by our parents. Ngozi ngadziripwe otherwise we prescribe solutions to issues yet people are living in denial.
In summary. issues of relationships are very complex and we must guard against advice from people who have failed to move on and have a score to settle and want to be seen/heard. Look at all sides. How many children from single parents make it into successful marriages? There are lots and lots of factors but I believe blowing things as in this instances is not ok. Imagine Zimbabwe all having single parents because of some examples given on air by people phoning in. Real solutions do not come out of such publicity.
Pane kakukwirisa ukaona murume aakuurayaa mukadzi achisiyira vana nhamo!!